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Kenny Brandmuse Nigerian gay says he is homesick, but fears being killed if he comes

Nigerian gay man who fled the country says he fears coming home so he would not be killed.

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Kenny Brandmuse


Last year, one of Nigeria's most creative minds, Kehinde Badmus, popularly called Kenny Brandmuse, came out of the closet on his status as a homosexual living with the HIV virus.

Read: "Kenny Badmus: HIV-positive brand expert comes out as gay"

Barndmuse took his friends, family and staff at Orange Academy, a school where brand managers are trained, by surprise with the announcement, after which he promptly relocated to the United States where he has been living.

Read: "True Confession: 'Being homosexual is the best thing to happen to me' - Kenny Brandmuse"

But it seems he is missing home very much but is afraid of coming back because he thinks he will by lynched for coming out to say he is gay.

This is how he poured out his mind on his Instagram page:

"I've been very homesick lately. My desire to kneel beside my mom's grave and lay her some wreath of beautiful flowers. To see my twin sister and pinch her fat cheeks while she criticizes everything I would easily think is good enough.

I miss being at Orange and assisting brilliant minds in bringing their ideas to life. Advising tons of amazing people about their personal branding and stories.

Paul, our beloved Officer getting me boole, roasted plantain and organically grown peanuts. I miss my nephew and how he goes all out to ensure I was eating well.

That Ibadan boy can cook. I miss Chisom Ohuakamy twin brother from another mother - another biggest critic of mine.

I miss going to Femi Odugbemi's office during lunch hours to rant about almost anything and how he'd say 'aburo, I have an idea.' I miss my big cousin Olabisi Ariyo. No words to describe.

My friends at FCB. These were my support system. People who love me for me. But then, I'm happy about where I am in this journey.

Even though it can be awfully lonesome here, I'm happy I can walk down the street as a gay man without being afraid of lynching, preaching and outright hating.

I'm grateful for the journey here in the States where my health has greatly improved as an HIV positive individual.

New York. Maryland. I was given some of the best medical assistance for FREE, at least until I found a job. I'm humbled by the unmatched generosity I have received from people who welcomed me here.

Call them what you may, America has been good to me. And to million others who dare to dream. Whenever I'm feeling this extremely homesick like I'm feeling at this moment, I always recall the words of my mother just a few weeks before she passed on:

"Don't be in a hurry to come home because wherever you are, and you can feel safe, there is your home."

She continued, "as a mother, my greatest concern is that you are safe.  ‪#‎Mindfulness‬ ‪#‎WhereIamIsWhereIam‬".

Kenny Brandmuse is missing home

Credit: Instagram

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