Giving your partner a sensual massage allows you to connect physically and emotionally.
Getting ready to have sex doesn’t just have to involve passionate kissing and a cuddle. Erotic massage is the perfect way to connect physically and emotionally, as well as turn someone one.
Also, communication is non-verbal and body language plays a huge part in how we communicate and understand other people. It should, therefore, make sense that massage is one of the most intimate kinds of touch and is a good way of communicating with your lover. Below are tips on how to prepare for that erotic massage that will lead to sex.
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You don't need a huge flat to give an erotic massage in, as long as the space you do have is nice and relaxed and most importantly, comfortable. Whether you're planning to massage your partner in your bedroom or living room, as long as you get the atmosphere down, you're golden.
This is one of the most important parts of your massage. You should get a slippery oil or lotion that will let your hands glide across their body, and leave their skin feeling smooth and nourished. Pour some oil onto your palms and gently rub to warm the lotion, before running your hands over your lover's body in sensual, long strokes.
You might be motivated to start off massaging intensely and deeply, but the opposite can be more exciting and arousing. Using your fingertips, trace the contours of your partner’s body. Run your fingers through their hair, gently graze their neck with the pads of your fingers or follow the smooth curves of their lips with your thumbs. This soft touching will give great results and allow you to move your touch from one area of the body to another nicely.
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Irrespective of which body part you're going to be massaging, there are techniques that can be used almost anywhere. So be careful not to press too hard, or cause any pain when you’re giving the massage. Just take your time to check in with your partner to find out which parts they enjoy most.