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John Dumelo Actor gives tips on how to treat your woman

John Dumelo gives17 tips on his Instagram to his male readers on how to treat their women.

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John Dumelo and Yvonne Nelson have that perfect kind of relationship. play

John Dumelo and Yvonne Nelson have that perfect kind of relationship.


One of the most eligible bachelors in the Ghanaian movie industry John Dumelo yesterday (January 10) dished out tips to his male followers on how to treat their women.

John Dumelo gave 17 tips on his Instagram to his male readers.

You can read the tips below;

1.Don't compare your wife to other women. You don't know what their husbands are going through.

2. NEVER expose your wife's weakness to your family or friends or run to them whenever you have issues. Problems are best solved between you and your woman.

John Dumelo play

John Dumelo



3. Don't think you are man so you can use intimidation, shout or violence to communicate your moods. Agreesive men don't make a happy home.

4. Speak gently and calmly to your wife. Never raise your voice at her, it demeans her and shows you think she is stupid.

5. Do your responsibilities as man...don't leave every to your woman.

6. Never blame your wife if she doesn't take care of the home everyday. She is swamped with house work and helping you raise the kids.

7. Don't be wasteful spending money on drinks, friends and extended family. The wife and children are your first responsibility.

8. Sex is also important to women. Her pleasure should be considered before your own.

9. Never compare your wife to your ex-girlfriends. If you loved them so much why didn't you marry them instead of your wife.

10. Never shout down your wife or challenge her in front of the children. The children are watching. They won't listen and obey her too.

John Dumelo play

John Dumelo



11. Tell your wife she's beautiful even if you know she's looking normal. Women love compliment.

12. Don't forget that women also want attention and someone to share their thougts with. Never be too busy for your wife.

13. A prayerful man is a better equipped husband. Pray always for your wife and family. Don't leave the prayers to your wife.

14.Treat your wife like a queen. Buy her gifts, take her shopping and once in a while, cook for her.

15.Please don't forget your these anniversary dates. Wedding ,engagement,the first time you kissed. I beg you. These dates mean a lot to women. (Don't ask me why). I also don't know.

16. Your mother should not have the final say in your marriage. You married your wife, not you and your mother. Let her talk in her own husband's house.

John Dumelo and Joselyn Dumas in Amsterdam for the premiere of 'Love or Something Like That' play

John Dumelo and Joselyn Dumas in Amsterdam for the premiere of 'Love or Something Like That'

(Instagram/John Dumelo)

17.There are 5 days each month that you have to say "I'm sorry", "yes baby" and "I love you" more than 7 times a day. That's when she's menstrating. #jmelo

On December 15, John Dumelo received a chieftaincy title from the people of Bamenda, Cameroun on December 15, 2015.

The movie star thanked the Bamenda people for bestowing him with such great honour.

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