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Pulse Nigeria Poll Readers say Jude should go through sex therapy

45% say Jemimah should do everything to encourage Jude to go through a sexual therapy to cure him of his addiction.

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Jemimah has been married to Jude for five years and in the first few years, they had a happy marriage till he lost his job and is now taking his frustrations on her.

He stumbled on a sex-enhancing drug and now wants to have sex with her every day and it is taking a toll on her as she is often left bruised.

All efforts to make Jude see reasons, why they should slow down, has fallen on deaf ears as he believes it is his right to sleep with his wife anytime he wants.

Read her story here:

"My name is Jemimah, a 32-year-old woman. I have been married to Jude for five years now but as I write this, I am no more comfortable with his high sexual libido and I fear he will kill me one day.

While we were dating and in the first two years of our marriage, we had a normal sex life. We made love often enough and everything went well until Jude lost his job two years ago and since then, he has turned me into a sex machine.

I don't know how he discovered a particular sex enhancing drink, a kind of bitter alcohol drink and since he started taking the drink, Jude's sexual libido has become something else.

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While other men go out to look for work, my husband would be hanging out with other jobless men, drinking the nonsense drink and when I get home tired and fagged out, he would descend on me as if I were a prostitute.

Most nights, Jude would make love to me almost five times and in the morning while preparing for work, he would also want to have sex before I leave.

The weekends are the worst because he would refuse to allow me to go anywhere and he would have sex with me till I get all sore.

Anytime I complain, he would say that as his legally married wife, he has the right to make love to me anytime he wanted.

It got so bad one day when I was sick and could not even get out of bed but that did not deter my husband as he forced himself on me and even when I fainted, he did not stop.

I know most women will say I should be happy that my husband desires me and wants sex all the time but too much of everything is bad.

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I have begged him to go for sexual therapy but he will have none of that. I am not a sex toy for crying out loud.

These days, I get scared whenever I close from work because I know that my husband would have taken his bitters and would be waiting to pounce on me. I am tired of the whole thing.

What should I do to save myself from this punishment in the hands of my husband?


The teaser for the day was:

What do you think Jemimah should do?

How Nigeria voted:

Jemimah should make sure her husband goes through therapy - 45%

Jemimah should tell her husband how she feels about his sexual libido - 28%

Jemimah should be happy her husband desires her always - 5%

Jemimah should pray about her situation - 22%

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