How to set the mood for fireworks sex on lovers' day
Follow these steps if you want your Valentine’s to end with a bang [No pun intended.]
The day is here when you make a show of your love to your partner - in the most public and most intimate manner.
When the public display of affection is over during the day, you have all night to make the most of Val's day.
Here are five ways to set the mood for the romantic sparks and ensure your Valentine's ends with the littest bang…
1. Sexy clothing
Guys, if you're initiating this, one way to let your intent known even before the time comes is to order lingerie or any other little piece that’ll further add an edge to the night.
If bae gets the package just on the afternoon of Valentine’s, she gets an idea of what’s going down later. [ensure there is still an element of surprise in the bedroom, no matter how little.]
If you're a lady initiating this, however, get something or choose one your sexiest underwear sure to make his turn.
Sexy clothings and underwear have a way of making you look a lot more alluring and of course, that’s what you both need so that the right, sensual mood can be set for the night ahead.
Candles are not overrated when it comes to setting the mood for a night of good, good loving.
Especially if they are scented, a few of them [so there won’t be too much heat] can be used to create the perfect atmosphere.
It’s Valentine’s, and the lovemaking has to be special, right? Then music is the next thing you need.
Create a playlist of the songs you and your sweetheart love most. If you have separate preferred genres of music, the then the woman’s preferred songs should be what fills the playlist.
Set the volume at a level where it does not drown out your voices. You need to hear each other breathe and whisper sweet things into each other’s ears.
Personal recommendation: Avril Lavigne’s ‘Kiss me’ and The script’s ‘No words.’
4. Chocolates and other flavors
There are sexythings you can do with chocolates and other sweet edible things like peanut butter, depending on how wild you let your imagination roam.
5. Cool headed
Whatever works for you and your partner, whether with toys or without that, ensure you make good use of the things you’ve got.
Be creative with use of home space [shower, hallway, etc], a bottle of wine does not sound like a terrible idea, either.
It’s a special night, a once-in-a-year kinda night. Come on guys, play it out, don’t rush, drive each other to different heights and when you both reach the climax, you’d know that every second was indeed worth it.
Your relationship should get the boost it needs after that.
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