This is why you always end up with the wrong girl

Truth is, it's quite understandable to meet the wrong woman now and then, but when it happens frequently, we need to investigate further.

Here are 7 super reasons you keep falling for the wrong girl

1. Gamophobia

This is the fear of commitment and it could occur as a result of traumatic experiences you had as a child. For instance, seeing your once-married parents split up can instill major commitment fear in you, and as an adult, being married or loving someone might rekindle that fear, so you avoid it.

And in a bid to avoid this commitment you knowingly or unconsciously decide to go into relationships with ladies who aren't serious.

2. Pressure

Family, friends, and even coworkers might put pressure on you to fall into the wrong woman's arms. If the thought of "I'm getting old" comes to mind, you'll feel compelled to settle down with someone, anyone.

3. Too many options

It's difficult to focus and settle with one lady when you're messing about with a lot of them. In reality, having too many options in life leads to confusion. Hence, when you have too many options in a relationship, you'll grow confused and most likely end up with the wrong person.

Another reason why you end up with the wrong girl is

4. Low self-esteem/confidence

A lot of guys lack self value. They battle with low self esteem and self-confidence. This will most certainly affect them when it comes to choosing the woman they want to be with. Because they have zero confidence in themselves, they'll end up settling for less.

5. Friend zoning

One of the biggest mistakes men make is friend zoning the girls they like. Why? Because they're scared to ask them out. This is how they end up missing out on what could have been a wonderful relationship.

6. Impatience

When you’re desperate to date and try to force your love on a girl, she may say yes out of pity rather than genuine affection. In the end, when she can no longer take it, she will dump you and leave you broken and miserable.

7. Double standards

When you’re not being true to yourself, your identity will confuse the ladies around you. I'd suggest you have a set of values and principles that you'll live by, and stick with them. Because in the end, you attract what you are.

Hence, before you date again, ask yourself, "which of these is the reason I constantly end up with the wrong girl?" Start working on it once you've discovered the answer.