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Guys! Check out these 5 ways to flirt without being disgusting

First things first: always remember to keep your eyes where they should be. Your hands, too!

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How sure are you that your compliment is actually being received as a compliment and not as an insult? play This is how to flirt with a babe without being disgusting (Madamenoire)

Knowing how to flirt is important. Knowing how to do it right is importanter. This is why you need to avoid being a creep while trying to flirt with someone you like or have an interest in.

When you flirt, you show sexual attraction to someone, many times playfully rather than with serious intentions. But then, who says you can’t make your intentions serious while at it?

So far you’re not being disgusting, lewd and annoying while at it, there shouldn’t be any problem.

Here are ways to flirt without being disgusting:

1. Eye contact

She may be gorgeous or super attractive to you. However, do take note on how much you find yourself staring at her, and on where you’re staring as well.

How to talk to a girl for the first time play Keep a firm eye contact and also do not forget to smile. (HuffPost)

2. Don’t be pushy

Don’t be pushy at all. Sometimes, it isn’t about space. If she is giving you short answers, or seems to be looking for a way to escape the conversation without giving you her contact number, make a gracious exit instead of prolonging talking to her. Chances are, she will just keep feeling uncomfortable if you do.

Find someone who’s genuinely interested to get to know you better instead.

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3. Go easy with the sexual innuendos

You don’t want to launch straight into this. Stay aware of how comfortable she is during the conversation. If she seems uncomfortable, it’s time to stop. The safer she feels around you, the flirtier she’ll become.

5 ways to recognise a babe in her savage phase aka hoe phase. play Do not launch immediately into lewd sex jokes. You'll creep her out. (Brooklyn Buttah)

4. Be calm

Don’t be all over the place, touching her too much, letting your hand linger on hers or any other thing that projects a lack of confidence or fidgetiness. Don't forget to keep and maintain eye contact too. Again, don’t let your eyes roam to places that will freak her out.

5. Smile

A calm, friendly smile will not only mentally prepare you for social interaction, it will also make the words you say clearer and make you more approachable and less threatening from the outset.

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