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Sex makes me lose interest in having a relationship

I just get fed up and lose interest in the relationship once I have sex with ladies. Please I need your advice on what to do.

Dear Bukky,

I will be 28 years old soon and I just don't know why I find it difficult to love, talk less of having a serious relationship.

I just get fed up once I have sex with ladies. Please I need your advice on what to do.

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Dear reader,

Thanks for your mail.

After reading your message, all that could come to my mind was to recommend this Pulse article article to you. Click on this link to access the said article, and hopefully you find it helpful.

In addition, let me add that if, perhaps, there are unresolved issues that you did not mention in your mail, maybe a terrible heartbreak, or any form abuse when you were younger, then maybe you might want to consider medical assistance, too.

Maybe the sex triggers unpleasant memories or makes you feel unnecessarily bad about yourself?

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As a matter of fact whether or not you have any unresolved issues, medical aid remains one of the valid options you want to consider.

To me, the very fact that you are attracted to females to the point of having sex with them shows that at least, you like women and the only other thing to worry about now is why you can't seem to fall in love.

Hopefully this response helps you find what you seek.

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