ADVERTISEMENT

My girl acts cold to me; I'm scared there's someone else

I feel left out and not loved anymore since we are not as intimate as we used to be.

Hi, Bukky!

I have been dating a girl for the sixth month now and our relationship has been fun and intimate until last week.

Since then she has been ignoring me and asking to be alone. I hardly get even a kiss these days until I complain.

So I feel left out and not loved anymore since we are not as intimate as we used to be.

ADVERTISEMENT

Actually, we have been away from each other for a month because campus has closed and since coming back, she hasn't even been interested to meet me which means I'm the one always creating time to find her and say hi.

Could there be someone else in her life so that I can give up on her?

Please help me._________________

Dear reader;

Please don’t be quick to jump to conclusions.

ADVERTISEMENT

Communication is your first and biggest step here. Find time, have a sincere conversation with her and ask questions.

She’s actually the best person to talk to.

You won’t know until you ask. I advise that you should be gentle and kind and direct without being rude or losing your calm.

You should want to know what’s wrong, not to accuse her of anything.

All the best in that relationship.__________________Do you want to talk about your love life, marriage or family issues?

ADVERTISEMENT

Do you have burning questions that you would love to get answers to?

Just send a mail,  include your location and detail your issues to relationships@pulse.ng.

I'll provide the most honest answers to them anonymously.

So, why not send that mail today and let's talk about it?

A problem shared is a problem half-solved!

JOIN OUR PULSE COMMUNITY!

Unblock notifications in browser settings.
ADVERTISEMENT

Eyewitness? Submit your stories now via social or:

Email: eyewitness@pulse.ng

Recommended articles

Couples can get married while completely naked on this beach

Couples can get married while completely naked on this beach

See how Nigerian celebs slayed at Bridgerton Affair with Netflix

See how Nigerian celebs slayed at Bridgerton Affair with Netflix

We asked an expert who's been to 24 countries how to travel on a budget

We asked an expert who's been to 24 countries how to travel on a budget

These 6 beaches are so dirty that swimming in them can send you to the hospital

These 6 beaches are so dirty that swimming in them can send you to the hospital

How often do you change your bed sheets? Here's something you need to know

How often do you change your bed sheets? Here's something you need to know

The best celebrity pictures of the week

The best celebrity pictures of the week

Japa Story: My journey to Canada took 4 years, but it's not greener on the other side

Japa Story: My journey to Canada took 4 years, but it's not greener on the other side

itel takes S24 smartphone to Nigerian campuses with MTN, Imagine Cinemas and Google

itel takes S24 smartphone to Nigerian campuses with MTN, Imagine Cinemas and Google

3 things you can do on your wedding day if you can't dance

3 things you can do on your wedding day if you can't dance

Are men biologically wired to crave multiple partners?

Are men biologically wired to crave multiple partners?

5 things nobody tells you about giving birth

5 things nobody tells you about giving birth

7 signs your body might be lacking nutrients

7 signs your body might be lacking nutrients

ADVERTISEMENT
ADVERTISEMENT