5 ways to know if he is into you

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August 24, 2016 3:03 PM

A lot of times, women are torn between determining if a man really want them for the long haul or just for short term.

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Not knowing where you stand in someones life can be very frustrating, especially when you like the person.

A lot of times, women can't tell if a man is really into them, or he is merely just enjoying the thrill of the chase.

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If you find yourself in such a situation, here are five things you should look out for. These will help you decide if he wants you for the long haul or not.

1. He is persistent:

He will be persistent in his attempts to get closer to you, even if you are already dating. No, this does not mean he is clingy and irrationally jealous, he is just unrelenting in his efforts to completely win your heart.

He continuously shows his commitment to being with you for eternity with his words and actions.

2. He plans the future with you:

He does not make any plans without putting you in consideration. Unlike other guys who are afraid to discuss the future, he is not afraid to plan one with you at all.

Whatever his plans for the future are, they include you and he creates room to accommodate you in whatever his future plans are.

3. He shows you the deepest parts of himself:

When he is with you, it is almost as if he is a completely different person. If he is shy and quiet outside, he will be playful and discuss just about anything when he is alone with you.

He lays himself bare and exposed his vulnerabilities to you. When he is alone with you, he allows his deepest and truest parts show.

4. He'd do anything to please you:

He will do everything within his power to make and keep you happy. He will go the extra mile just to bring a smile to your face, even if the trip is not convenient.

5. He will ask for your hand in marriage:

Well, that's pretty obvious. When a man wants you in his life forever, he actually asks you her to become his wife and spend the rest of her life with him.

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