Habits you can't have in a healthy relationship

There are many things that could potentially make it difficult for you to get a relationship.

It goes without saying that things like miserable manners, terrible hygiene and poor grooming will make it difficult for babes to even grant you an audience let alone get into a relationship with you.

Away from those physical traits which every guy should have fixed before trying to get into a relationship, there are some other things that could limit your chances of getting that amazing babe.

1. Intimidated by independence

Guys often say they want women that are independent and free. Women who have opinions, who aren’t so reliant on them for validation and every other thing.

The truth, however is that some men find this easy to say than do.

To be in a healthy relationship with a woman who understands how to be independent and in love at the same time is actually a blessing. It’s just sad that many guys still don’t know how to deal with this.

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2. Feelings of inadequacy

The goal should be to get into a relationship and eventually marry a woman who values her family and relationship without losing focus on her goals and attaining them.

So if you are feeling inadequate and act so because of a woman’s successes and achievements, you still have some distance to go.

If she’s good for you and does everything right, then there’s no reason why you shouldn’t be with her if you love her.

Achieving successes that surpass yours isn’t reason to not move to a woman, or to start projecting insecurities in a relationship.

3. Traditional thoughts

One other thing that could count against you in the search for love is the thoughts you express.

If you still staunchly believe in stuff like ‘men should never be found in the kitchen,’ or ‘it is the woman’s duty to wash men’s clothes’ and ‘oral sex is wrong’ among other similar opinions, the poll of women to pick from will seriously dwindle.

As much as you might hate to hear it, modern relationship dynamics are shifting and many traditional relationship things are being done away with.

Being pliable and adjustable to these changes is really important if you are to get into a relationship with the girl of your dreams and stay in it.