4 relationship problems that are really hard to solve

oge okonkwo

April 6, 2016 2:27 PM

There are some issues between couples that are way harder to solve and it takes more than just sitting and talking to make things right once again

Not every relationship problem can be solved; some could cause a serious strain between couples which may be irreparable in the long run.

There are some issues between couples that are way harder to solve and it takes more than just sitting and talking to make things right once again.

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Inspired by Huffington Post, here are 4 relationship problems that are really hard to fix:

1. Repeated cheating habits

The case of ‘once a cheater, always a cheater’ stands here. This kind of relationship crisis can be solved if the cheater is truly sorry for what he or she has done and wants to wholeheartedly leave the affair behind, if not, there’ll be constant heartbreak and one partner will eventually give up on the other.

2. Having a partner who is a narcissist

Telling a narcissist to change is like asking to skin themselves alive, it just can’t happen overnight. Most times trying to keep up with a partner who clearly has a narcissistic personality disorder will be a problem in your relation and takes a large amount of tolerance, love and patience not to walk away.

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3. Couple having disrespect for each other

This is one clear sign your relationship won’t last long because disrespect eats away any marital foundation you’ve built with each other over the years. Unless both partners are willing to change, the relationship will crash like a pack of cards.

4. Keeping secrets from each other

Couples have to be comfortable opening up to each other. Keeping secrets can be very frustrating. Keeping emotions all bottled up can leave you feeling depressed which will in turn cause a strain in your relationship.

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