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For Men 10 ways to show your partner that you actually care

Saying 'I love you' is, and has never been enough; you need to do more and here is how to go about that.

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How to show a woman you really care

(How to show a woman you really care)

Saying I love you is the easy part of a relationship. Making the required effort to show that you actually do... that's where many guys mess it all up.

Keeping your girl truly satisfied and happy at all times is a continuous endeavour, a rollercoaster of efforts, unending like a well-oiled carousel... and absolutely worth it.

A happy woman, cared for, loved, adored, respected will not only beautify your life, but will most likely make your life one of ease and peace.

So, what are the things to do to show a woman that you actually care?

1. More contact

Public display of affection is not just for horny teenagers, it is a valid way of showing continuous interest, and it means a lot to women. In public and private, don't forget this.

play A little more body count helps too (The clean sheet)

2. Gifts

Gifts given to a woman are never insignificant. Never. No matter how small, it means a lot to her, especially if it's a thoughtful one.

3. Be attentive

To her mood, and body language. Some women bottle up their discontent but they are hardly able to guise it.

Pay attention to her as much as you can, you'll be surprised at the length you'll go with that babe if you do that.

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4. Love notes/ cute texts

Women are not men, and absolutely desire these things. It means a whole lot to them.

So, make it short and heartfelt, hilarious, silly and at other times sexy and nasty... just keep the texting and love notes steady.

play Nothing beats having a woman who feels truly loved and satisfied with you (Annarborcouplestherapy)

5. Time

Nothing beats time spent together. All the words of endearment don't mean jack if you do not spend time with that girl.

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6. Plan surprises

As your budget permits, bruh... or rather, as recession permits.

play Plan surprises (Happenings)

7. Unrequested favours

Women love things being done for them. So... her car needs servicing? Roll up on a Saturday morning, drive the car to the mechanic's and bring it back in prime condition...

Point is, whatever will make your girl realise that you are actually looking out for her, and that you truly care, just do it.

8. Listen more

Asking a girl to be yours is basically the same as asking to be her best gist mate, best friend and confidant.

play Listen a lot more, too (Youth village)

9. Genuine change

If she complains about something you can work on, then work on it and be a better man for her.

Partners are meant to make each other better, right?

10. Never forget these things

Constantly doing these things and any other thing that might be particular to pleasing your girl and making her happy should also be your goal.

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