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Do you still have feelings if your ex' presence makes you uncomfortable?

If his or her presence makes you feel some type of way, does it always mean you still have love for that ex?

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Why you should stop accepting barest mininum as bae material play Discomfort Around Your Ex: Does it mean you still love him? (Madamenoire)

All relationships that began with happiness do not end in joy. Breakups happen all the time, both the avoidable ones and the unavoidable ones.

When relationships come to an end, there are so many things that naturally come with such occurrence. There is the issue of seeking closure, the issue of trying to numb the pain, and then there’s the matter of moving on in a classy way.

Once a breakup is complete and both partners have apparently moved on from that phase, there is obviously a high possibility that their paths will cross again and how they act in the circumstance vary from couple to couple.

What different ways do women handle breakups and heartbreaks. play Love may glow at the beginning of the relationship. It does not mean that all will be rosy forever. (Newsfeed)


If one partner feels uncomfortable being around his or her ex, would that signify the existence of romantic feelings for that ex?

While this is a possibility, it is not always the truth. Sometimes, being uncomfortable around an ex could be as a result of the situations surrounding the breakup.

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When it comes to moving on from a relationship, especially the type that hit really hard and broke you, and left you really hurt and damaged, there is a lot more involved. It would take more time, more tears, more effort and many times, the struggle would be reeeeeeeaaal.

Why seeking closure after a breakup is overrated play If the relationship broke you badly, chances are that you are more angry than in love when next you set eyes on that ex. (Glowville)


For many men and women in a situation as this, getting out of that depressing phase could take so much toll on them that they vow to never want anything to with that ex anymore.

So what they would feel for their ex would be far from any romantic or amorous vibe. Their discomfort would be one that is generated by the anger, hate and malice that’d be brewing in them at that moment.

For some other people, there is usually still a sexual energy that refuses to die between them and their ex. For people like this, any discomfort would be from the restraint they would need to place on themselves in the circumstance, especially if they are in another exclusive relationship – or marriage.

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