'You Ladies Have Nothing To Offer Your Men' - Fred Agbaje!!! True or Not?!?

Is this true??? This might sound like the ramblings of a misguided and bitter fellow but in all honesty is there any truth in his words??? The average Nigerian woman likes to live well....who doesn't?  But to advice men to use and dump ladies is rather extreme especially coming from someone who is supposed to be a learned fellow.

Many ladies would argue that if you actually took the time to groom your man to the best that he can be, he would forget you when the going is smoother. Others say that in this day and age, life is too short to be wasting time on men who are still struggling to get their foothold. However, the fact is that this is a rather one-sided advice to dish out to the general public as there are still women who are concerned about the growth of their partners and offer all the support they can to the growth of this fellow. Most ladies are judged by their love for the better things of life, the human hair, the pretty face and fine clothes and cars. However this does not make you an empty headed lady that has nothing to offer as described by Mr. Fred Agbaje.

Ladies what do you have to say? Does your love for the finer things of life make you an empty headed tool to be used and discarded as described by this Lagos lawyer?