The K-Solo Saga - Who Is The Other Woman???

“Hello, Nnamdi where are you?”

“Hey sweetheart. Look I'm so sorry, the wife is around and she wants us to spend some time together”.....

“Forget it Nnamdi.”

“Chill babe....”

She cut the call and picked up her bag and left the bar.

Many women live in mortal fear of the dreaded 'Other Woman'. There have been stories about how these women have been introduced into relationships and the devastating effects that they have on relationships all over. But have you ever paused to think how the other woman must feel?

Take for example here, the love triangle between K-Solo, estranged wife Kike and new woman Bimbo. The saga began with abuse from Mr. K-Solo towards estranged wife Kike. Thereafter in a bid to save face, they claimed it was a media publicity stunt and then things supposedly returned to normal. The proverbial crap hit the fan when last week, the producer changed his status on Facebook to engaged and uploaded about 15 pictures with young lady Bimbo which he tagged as 'My Love'. As if things were not already complicated enough, Kikelomo on Friday 26th October 2012 gave birth to a bouncing baby. K-Solo did not acknowledge the birth of the child and sent out a warning to the press about being referred to as the husband to the bearer of the child. In his words “the baby deliverer has a name and should not be tagged as K-Solo's wife”.

This garnered a lot of public wrath including from Toni Payne, estranged wife of 9ice and K-Solo gave another story which is quite unbelievable. According to him, he was originally engaged to Bimbo (the new woman) before Kikelomo came to 'break them up'. He got married to Kikelomo and claims that the pictures of her being beat up are just make up pictures put together to ruin his musical career. According him, he has come back to his senses and wants to be back with Bimbo and no force on earth can bring them back together.

Who here is the other woman: ? Both women have obviously been through a lot for the man they claim to love; in this case K-solo. Who do we channel our righteous indignation towards: the two women or the man who isn’t disciplined enough to remain committed to a woman he's married to in the eyes of God and man? If indeed was K-Solo says is true, then this would make Kikelomo, though officially married to him, the 'other woman'. However because all of this is hearsay and since K-Solo is still officially married to Kikelomo, Bimbo remains the 'other woman' in this case. This case is also very dicey given that the young woman, Kikelomo just had a baby for the producer, even though he refuses to acknowledge the child. Who is to blame for all of this brouhaha

Most importantly; What would you do if you were in either of their shoes:K-Solo, Kikelomo or Bimbo?