Sex is supposed to be so amazingly good. Sadly, sex doesn’t always turn out that way. In fact, having sex that good can be once in a blue moon.
Pain can happen for various reasons. And it can range from a bit of pain to being so bad that you have to stop. To help make sex pleasurable again, below are tips on how to prevent pain during sex.
1. Never skip foreplay
There are a lot of reasons why foreplay is great. One of the big ones is that it helps you and your partner loosen up in a lot of ways. Not only does it help you feel less nervous, but it also helps you loosen up down there. If you go from one kiss to trying to put the P in the V, your vag probably won't be wet enough.
2. Lots of communication
Your partner might be super in tune with you, but he/she isn't a mind reader. And neither are you. Therefore, if you're experiencing pain during sex, you need to speak up. And you need to say something when it happens. Don't bite your lips and continue with it. You owe it to yourself to speak up.
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3. Plenty lube
While your vagina does plenty of natural lubricating, that sometimes isn't enough. Your vagina might not be functioning at peak lube mode when you're nervous. And if you're stressing about pain, that will likely impact things down below. So, grab that bottle of lube and slather it on.
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