"Please help, I think my girlfriend is cheating on me"

Hello Bukky,

I'm Fred Bassey, from Cross River state,  I really enjoy your talks and advice regarding relationships, it's wonderful, please I wish to share my present challenge and difficulty in my relationship.

I'm dating someone whom I love very much but lately, she's been acting very suspicious like she's doing something behind my back.

I feel like she's cheating because she no longer treats me the way she used to. My girlfriend used to call me sweet names  but now she's always busy to attend to me or pay me a visit.

I don't know if I'm not playing my part well as a boyfriend and I'm the cause of why she's changed.

Please I need your help?

Thanks.

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Hello Fred,

From your mail, you sound really concerned about your relationship which is good but I'll tell not to put the whole blame on yourself.

Do what you can to reconnect with your girlfriend, try to spend time alone together, do fun activities that'll bring you both closer.

Having a hunch your girlfriend is cheating isn't enough to assume she really is. You have to get your facts right first. Let her know you aren't comfortable at this stage in your relationship and would want to know how both of you can make this better.

Avoid trading blames when having this discussion so it doesn't become heated, you both should admit your faults and reach an agreement on how you should treat each other from then henceforth.

Be calm even if she raises her voice during your heart-to-heart discussion, make her understand you want the best from this relationship and would do what it takes to make things work out.

I wish you all the best.

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