Deep-throating is the act of inserting a penis or other object like a dildo into your actual throat, rather than just the mouth.
It sounds really impossible, or like some unreliable porn move, because throats are generally not used to having large objects inside of them. But lots of people — givers and receivers — are big fans of deep-throating, because it can provide a more intense sensation than the average blowjob. Below are some tips from that might make deep-throating easier on the giver.
1. Practice makes perfect
Humans have a natural gag reflex, which stops things from going down your throat that aren't supposed to be in there. Deep-throating an object or penis goes exactly against that reflex, so it might feel unnatural or like you're choking at first. It is possible to learn how to control these reflexes and insert objects into your mouth, but you have to practice. You can't just become a deep-throating professional overnight.
2. Switch positions
Depending on the size and bend of what's being deep-throated, it might make sense for the giver to lie down. Lying on your back, with your head hanging off of the edge of a bed, with the receiver standing up beside the bed. In this position, your throat and mouth will have a better alignment for the insertion of objects. You could also try 69-ing, which will position the receiver's penis at a different angle than kneeling, and can allow the giver to control the speed and depth.
3. Breathing through your nose
Finding a flow with your breath makes deep-throating way easier. Nose-breathing works fine when it comes to deep-throating. Try to take slow, deep, controlled breaths while performing the act. Inhale before you take a mouthful, and don't hold your breath.
4. Take it slow
Deep-throating shouldn't be a race. If you just start stuffing things into your throat, you can damage your sensitive throat tissue. At first, the giver should focus on going slowly down the receiver's shaft, and stopping when they reach an uncomfortable point. Once that's somewhat manageable, they could try increasing their tempo.
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