Before the vows:Traits to look out for before you say i do

Kate looked at the clock for like the up tenth time that night; the clock struck 1a.m yet Tony wasn’t back from work, at least that was where he left for in the morning.

She stood up and groaned in pain as a result of the beatings she got from her husband that same morning, two months after their vows to stick together for better and for worse; she had already become her supposed husband’s punching bag.

She was confused, her life was a deep mess; she had become a walking corpse with no idea what was coming next. A sudden bang on the door jeered her back to reality; that must be Tony, she said to herself as she walked towards the door.

An hour later left Kate looking disheveled on the couch; she had been raped over and over again by her husband. While it lasted, she reminisced on how things had been before their marriage vows.

The old Tony, the one who had been every lady’s dream guy, the man who treated her like the lady she was, all gone with no traces left behind.

Things To Consider Before Before You Say I Do

Before you say I do, do you know this person well enough to commit your entire life into his or her hands? Of a truth, you can’t know all there is to know about your supposed spouse while dating; but you can know just enough to decide if this is the right person for you.

Being in love shouldn’t stop you from paying attention to seemingly little things like how your spouse relates to his or her family. A man who has no regards for his family while you’re dating might have little or no regard for his wife when married.

There’s a saying which remains true till now; if you want to know how a man will treat his wife, notice how he treats his mother. A man can’t give what he doesn't have, same applies to women.

Don’t try to cover for your partner’s excesses in this regard; if he has ever been angry enough to hit you once, the possibility of doing it again is not farfetched.

These and several more are things you should look out for before you say I do on the altar. Never make the mistake of trying to overlook these traits, the end result can be quite costly

Written by Alara Karis

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