5 types of men that will break you no matter how good you are

There really are guys who will leave you broken and scarred no matter how great you are to them or how beautiful your heart is.

As a woman, you need to realise that sometimes, loving someone and giving yourself wholly into expressing that emotion can only hurt and break you.

It's a sad reality but it's true that you can't help everyone, you can't save everyone even with all the love and good intentions in your kind heart.

There are five types of guys who fall in this category. They are the utmost worst types of guys to fall in love with.

1. The one who blows hot and cold

This is te guy who blitz into your life with sweetness and all the affectionate stuff that makes y9ou feel like the only girl in the world.

But all this is to draw you into his world of messed up emotions. As soon as your mind is set on him, the excuses and wrong treatment begins.

No longer will you get the feeling of being the only girl in the world. It sometimes get so bad that you might wonder if he even sees you at all, no matter how much you put yourself in his line of vision.

The moment you decide that you’ve had enough though, his brain resets and with promises of change and a temporary change of heart, he pulls you back into his world.

But it’s all part of a cycle. And before you know it, you’re going in hot-and-cold circles again.

2. Too close to his ex

There’s a difference between being cordial and being too friendly with an ex.

A guy who has not learnt this difference will cause you no small headache.

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3. The guy with commitment issues

If he can’t commit now because of work, or whatever other excuse he comes up with, you need to consider holding on to him.

Relationships and all other spheres of your life are meant to go hand in hand.

It is commitment he needs to be great at what he does, and at the same time remain a great boyfriend to you.

Excuses about his job or career are just a mask for the real problem: he’s unprepared to commit… to you.

4. Treats you differently in front of his friends

One minute, he’s full of sweet-as-candy pillow-talk and the next he’s finding it hard to hold your hand or even look into your eyes because his friends are there.

Does that not tell you that you are nothing but a closet lover?

5. The one who lacks ambition

This is just as simple and straightforward as it sounds.

You are not to build a man who even has no foundation in place. You can only support him with your love and care, and no one supports what is inexistent.