Readers say they would cut a relationship threatening their marriages

isaac dachen

December 2, 2015 9:55 AM

67% of Pulse Nigeria Poll voters say George should cut off his relationship with Amaka and confess to his wife.

A really worried man

A newly married young man, is trouble over a fling he had with a married woman which is turning into a nightmare for him and is threatening to destroy his marriage.

"My name is and I got married about eight months ago to a woman I have dated for three years. Getting married to has been the best decision I have ever made in my life because she has proven to be the type of woman any man would love to get married to.

But the joy we have been sharing seems to be heading for the rocks courtesy of a fling I had some months before we got married that is threatening to truncate my joy and home.

I met this woman at a popular cinema in Lagos Island around December last year after Oge travelled to her village to spend the Christmas.

I went to the cinema with some friends and like most boys would do, we decided to catch some flings. In fact, was the one that came for me though I did not know at that time that she was married.

She happened to be one of those big babes that go for what they want and after the first night which we spent at a hotel, all expenses paid by her of course, I thought it was over but she kept coming, spending loads of money on me, so much I began to get suspicious.

When she told me she was married, I initially opted out but she cried and begged that I should not leave her. I told her plainly that once I got married, we would have to put a stop to what we were doing and she accepted but when I finally got married, Amaka changed completely and has been making life difficult for me.

She wants me to be with her at least three times a week and has vowed to destroy me if I ever called it quits. The last time I tried to stay away from her, she set me up and I was arrested and detained for a week.

She has told me that if I ever left her, she would have my wife either killed or seriously injured. I have not been able to tell my wife what I am going through.

I am in a very serious problem and I need advice and not insults please."

The teaser for the day was:

What would you do if a married woman is threatening your marriage?

How Nigeria voted:

67% - I would confess to my wife and cut the relationship

29% - I will report her to her husband

4% - I will continue to indulge in the relationship

How would you vote?

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