Girls’ Night? Here’s How to Make It Fun, Chill, and Full of Memories

There’s something deeply comforting about staying in with your girls. No loud music, no makeup stress, no long lines at lounges. Just you and your favorite people, good food, games, laughter, and a chance to bond without distractions.

If your squad has been planning a night in or needs an excuse to catch up, and wondering what to do at a girls’ night in that’s more than just gist and snacks, these fun bonding games will take it up a notch. From fun games to girls’ night gift ideas, food suggestions, and playlist tips, here’s how to make your next girls’ night one to remember.

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Start With a Theme (Or Just Keep It Simple)

You don’t always need a theme, but it does help set the tone and excite everyone. Some fun girls’ night themes you can try include:

• Pajamas and Prosecco – comfy outfits, sparkling drinks, and laid-back games.

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• Skincare and Sip – sheet masks, beauty talks, and mocktails.

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• Wine and Whine – a night for venting, laughing, and heart-to-heart bonding.

• Throwback Night – dress like it’s 2005, play old-school music, and talk about crushes from secondary school.

• Karaoke Night – get the Bluetooth mic ready and sing your hearts out.

Picking a theme makes planning food, drinks, and games easier around one central idea. But if everyone’s tired or busy, just agree on a night and show up as you are.

Girls’ Night Games That’ll Get Everyone Laughing

No girls’ night is complete without games. You want interactive, fun games that give room for inside jokes and storytelling. Here are a few game ideas for girls’ night:

• “Who’s Most Likely To…” – make it spicy or silly.

• Truth or Drink – perfect for close friends or chaotic squads.

• For The Girls Card Game – designed for girls’ night bonding.

• Charades or Heads Up – especially if you have a mixed group of personalities.

• Never Have I Ever – you’ll be shocked what people reveal.

• Sip or Spill – a Nigerian take on truth or drink.

These games help everyone relax, laugh, and open up. You don’t need to buy anything, just write prompts on paper and go from there.

Don’t Stress the Food — Keep It Tasty and Easy

You don’t need to cook a five-course meal. Easy finger foods, light snacks, and drinks are perfect for a bonding night with the girls. Try these:

• Grazing platters – small chops, fries, chicken wings, puff-puff.

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• Fruit cups and yoghurt bowls – for a healthier, colourful spread.

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• Instant noodles bar – everyone customizes their bowl.

• Popcorn, candy, and biscuits – simple and cheap.

• Mocktail or cocktail station – provide juices, soda, and garnishes.

You can also have a potluck-style dinner where everyone brings one dish or snack. Or you can agree to order food from a trusted spot on Jumia Food or Glovo.

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Include a Small Gift or Goody Bag — If You Can

Girls’ night gifts don’t have to be expensive. It could be anything small and thoughtful that shows you appreciate your friends. Here are some affordable girls’ night gift ideas:

• Lip gloss, mini perfumes, or nail polish

• Sheet masks or travel-size skincare

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• Customized keychains, mugs, or T-shirts

• Inside joke souvenirs — like a card with your best memory together

You can also do a ₦5,000 minimum gift swap where everyone randomly brings a gift, and people take turns picking. It’s fun, unpredictable, and gives everyone something to take home.

Make Room for Real Conversations and Bonding

Games and food are fun, but the real power of a girls’ night in is the opportunity to reconnect. Create space for conversations beyond everyday gist.

You can try these bonding night activities:

• Affirmation circle: Everyone says one thing they admire about the next person.

• Secret confession jar: Write something you’ve never told anyone, drop it anonymously, and read it out.

• "This Is Your Chance" round: A chance to bring up that gist you’ve been holding back.

• Group journaling: Pick a prompt like “Where do you see yourself in 6 months?” and share answers (optional).

Girls’ night is a safe space where you can feel heard, supported, and loved.

Capture the Night — Don’t Just Let It Happen

Make memories. Take photos. Film short clips. Post or don’t post, it’s up to the crew, but capture the laughter and love.

Ideas:

• Group selfie session with a ring light

• “One second every hour” clips for TikTok

• Mini vlogs: prepping together, food setup, game reactions

• Group dance or challenge (even if you don’t post it)

Make sure everyone’s comfortable being on camera before filming. Respect privacy, not everyone wants to go viral on Instagram stories.

A Playlist That Matches the Energy

Your girls’ night playlist should match your theme. Mix genres, add throwbacks, and let everyone contribute a song.

Here are some playlist theme ideas:

• “Soft Girl Energy” – Ayra Starr, Tems, Summer Walker

• “Love & Chaos” – SZA, Adele, Burna Boy

• “Old But Gold” – Style Plus, Mo’Hits, Rihanna, Brandy

• “Dance & Laugh” – Asake, Tiwa Savage, Megan Thee Stallion

Create a shared playlist ahead of time on Spotify or Apple Music and let people add their faves.

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Final Tips to Make It Stress-Free

• Don’t overthink it. The goal is connection, not perfection.

• Use what you have — your living room, your vibe, your friends.

• Ask everyone to bring something small (food, drinks, games).

• Avoid group chats with 20 people. Keep it tight — 4 to 7 people is ideal.

• Be fully present. Your girls are there. That’s enough.