My boyfriend bites me during sex, Is this a problem?

Hello Joan, My name is Modupe and I live in Lagos. I have a boyfriend and we just began dating about two months ago. We have had sexual intercourse seven times. In four of those six times, he bites me. At first I thought it was his own way of expressing his sexuality but he keeps doing that and it hurts. I spoke to him about and he said he will stop but it seems he can't control it. It happens when he wants to cum. Please, its that a problem?

Dear Modupe,

I understand that men have several ways they react to orgasm or when they cum and I want to believe bitting could be one. However, it's a problem when he can't control it. If it inflicts pain then it should be stopped asap! He can control it, no excuses. He can't go all Vampire on you every time he's cuming. So I suggest that you should provide a pillow during that moment so he has something none-human to bite. If not, then please go seek help.

Hi Joan, I've got a question. My boyfriend wants me to suck his dick. But I can't. I find it disgusting. What do I do??? Please don't say my name out.

Dear fan,

Fellatio is something most couples in our generation practice. I think it's an act that gives pleasure to both men and the women as well as it can lead to throat cancer.  However, it can't be forced on someone. So if you think you don't want to do it, let him know about it and the reason why you don't. If he insists then girlfriend, know he will get it some place else... #breakup! So think hard.

Dear Ola,

Most women will leak. If you're having orgasms, then the semen can also be pushed out. Putting your hips up for 20 minutes could help. Sperm however, travels very fast, and can find their way through your cervix very quickly. And once inside, they don't come back out through the cervix. It has nothing to do with an egg being fertilized, which happens in your tubes. Make sure that if you are trying, your huband stays inside until he has completely ejaculated. And having an orgasms can help pull sperm up if you orgasm after your husband ejactulates. Try putting your hips up and having him stimulate you by hand (remember, spit can kill sperm). You CAN have a reaction to your husbands' sperm because of anitsperm antibodies. But you wouldn't know that unless you both go through tests. Got help from Thnk you all for your mails this week. Remember to send your mails to joanonsex@pulse.ng