2 important reasons you don't need intimate details of your spouse's affair

You want to confront your spouse after finding out he/she was having an affair. It's expected that you feel hurt and betrayed after everything you just discovered but you want to hear them say the truth.

You proceed to do the asking and demand for every little detail that led to the affair, but do you need to hear the dirty details to the last bit? Relationship experts say that if you're planning on mending your marriage, the details are not for your ears to hear because the picture in your head could damage your chances of forgiveness and healing.

Relationship experts from YourTango give two reasons you need to stay off the intimate details of your spouse's affair: