How to initiate sex that will have your partner panting

Launching sex can be super hot, but, if we’re being totally honest, we usually leave it up to dudes to get the ball rolling.

Plus, women are also programmed to want to feel desired, and being pursued sexually ties into that. But men aren’t always comfortable initiating sex and they aren’t always in the mood for sex either – sometimes you need to help put him in the mood. Here's how below.

1. Demanding

Grab your guy and tell him what you want. Tell your partner to get on their knees, climb on top, or strip naked in the kitchen. Not only does this give him a clear guide of what to do, but it also gives you exactly what you have a craving for.

2. Dropping hints

Leave a sexy prop, like the vibe you like to use together or warming lube, on his pillow to signal your interest. If he asks you about it, just wink…and then go for it.

3. Play masseuse

The whole massage thing is a fantasy for a lot of guys, so play it out at home. Offer to give your guy a rubdown, and then slowly work your way south until you end up massaging his inner thighs. You’ve got it from there.

4. Take your kissing downtown

Kick it up a notch by reaching down and brushing your fingers against his inner thighs. The key is to be gentle here, which is way hotter for both of you than totally grasping a handful of his junk.

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