In fact, pretending to be in a porno might be the role play. It’s a choose your own adventure kind of sex thing. Also, role play is a break from normal, vanilla sex. It’s a chance to explore fantasies and kinks outside of your routine. Here are the reasons why role play can be so hot.

There is something greatly tantalizing about becoming a person you’ve always wanted to be...and then having sex. You’re wearing someone else’s skin for the evening. You and your partner have a chance to step outside of your daily roles and be whoever you want to be. You and your partner are not just acting out a fantasy, you’re a part of the fantasy.

One of the hottest parts of role play is having total control over the scene. You can role play by simply taking on a certain character and talking dirty to each other—that’s totally hot. But, you can also choose to have more elaborate scenes; ones with costumes and gear.

Role play offers that taste of the unknown that we crave. Put simply, it's new and excitingly different. We’re playing out a fantasy that we have not yet tried before. Role play offers more than just a new sex move or toy, it gives you a chance to be someone new. You and your partner get to be different people.

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