A lot of men are still not so comfortable when it comes to giving their partner oral sex. Its high time women feel more than comfortable asking for and getting oral sex. Especially if the cunnilingus has fallen off the sexual menu in your relationship. Here are a few approaches you can take to getting more head.

You don’t want to address the situation in an openly hostile way. Instead of, "I need more head or we’re never having sex again," try "I love it when you go down on me. Can you do it more? " "It feels amazing when your mouth is on me. I would love to explore that more often." This way you’re keeping things positive.

A sexually confident woman knows what she wants and she asks for it. Here is the thing: If you don’t ask, you’re not going to get it. You can even bring up some fun anatomy. When your clitoris is stimulated, you’re going to be better prepared for penetrative sex. When a woman has an orgasm during foreplay, studies have shown that sex is more satisfying. Let your partner know that sex is a lot better for you when you’re aroused.

If you want to take the positive theme a little further, make it a part of foreplay and dirty talk. Focus the conversation on him or her going down on you. Whether you’re more naturally dominant or submissive in the pouch, you can make it work for you. If your partner usually leads, tell him or her you want them to go down on your while holding your wrists to the bed.

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