Learning how to navigate the clitoris and oral sex takes active learning.
Fortunately, we have all the best info for you right here. Check out some amazing oral sex tips below.
1. Ask her about her likes
Every woman’s body is different and may enjoy being stimulated in a variety of ways. Ask her what she wants you to do to her. It definitely makes for some naughty dirty talk. You are not a mind-reader. Don’t pretend you can see into the oral sex crystal ball.
2. Support is vital
Women aren’t openly encouraged to expect or enjoy oral sex. Society tells us to put our partner’s pleasure before our own and to be grateful if he or she blesses us with oral. Not to mention there is an entire industry devoted to selling products to freshen our vaginas because they are naturally gross. It’s a crappy deal. Since these negative attitudes abound, be sure she knows how much you want to give her oral sex. Be open about how hot she is and how good she tastes. Making her feel comfortable (and sexy) in her body will help her relax. A relaxed woman is one more likely to experience an orgasm
3. Focus on the clitoris
The clitoris is bae. The clitoris is the center of female pleasure. Ignoring it would be like giving a blowjob and not putting a penis in your mouth. It makes no sense. The clitoris sits at the top of the inner labia. It is a rosebud-shaped button. This is only the part you can see. The entire structure of the clitoris extends back into the walls of the vagina. If you’re concerned about what to do, stay on the external button. You can use one or two fingers to penetrate the vagina, but don’t smash them inside her. Ask her if she enjoys penetration during oral sex before trying internal stimulation.
4. Listen to her body
Pay attention to both verbal and physical cues. If she’s pushing her vulva into your face and moaning, you can be pretty sure what you’re doing is working. If she’s pulling away or dead silent, try something else. Her body will tell you a lot about how she’s feeling.
5. Moan into her vulva
Let her know you’re a willing and excited participant. You can even take a two-second break to tell her how good she tastes. She’ll appreciate knowing you’re having a good time as she is.
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