Concentrate on how she plays with her vulva and her clitoris in particular. Below are few elements to consider.
1. The general type
She could use objects like dildos, vibrators, pillows, bottles, cucumber and almost anything she can get her hands on. While most women do it while resting on their backs, there are also others who prefer to be on their stomachs. Still, there are those who never use hands but press their thighs in a familiar rhythm.
2. The environment
When women treat themselves, they usually prepare the mood by setting the environment to certain specs. They set things right, for example, by initially taking a warm or cold shower, lighting candles, even dressing up! They prefer a certain time or day, a particular music, even props. These are her secrets, however, guys don’t bother with this antics.
3. Specific areas
Those who shove fingers or dildos oftentimes aim it somewhere specific. It could be at the G-spot or any of her sweet spots. Find out where these are. Another thing, if she’s using one hand, observe what the other is doing. Is it sensually stroking her breasts? If so, observe carefully how she works them. Usually, when a woman touches herself, other areas besides the vulva gets attention.
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