But Tim's wife is threatening to break up their relationship after she seduced Andy to sleeping with her and has continued to blackmail him emotionally.
Readers say Andy should confess his infidelity to his wife
35% want Andy to confess to his wife how Mary seduced him to sleep with her and has been making life difficult for him.
Read his story here:
"My name is , a 38-year-old married man with two lovely kids. I am in a dilemma at the moment after my best friend's wife, , seduced me into sleeping with her and since then, she has refused to leave me alone.
and I have been the best of friends from our university days and in fact, he was my groomsman at my wedding while I also played the same role for him when he wedded four years ago.
But one thing about Tim is that he has always been flirtatious and even after marriage, he has refused to so stop, which often cause problems for him and at such times, I would be the one to mediate and settle their quarrels.
Mary always looked to me to sort them out and it was on one such occasion that she seduced me. That Saturday, they had had a fight and she ran to my house with bruises all over her body.
My wife and kids had traveled to her village to spend some time with their family and I was all alone. I was so mad at what Tim did and called him to come over to my place but he bluntly refused, telling me he does not want to see his wife.
When I insisted, he switched off his phone and I could not get to him again. I tried my best to give Mary first aid treatment and gave her some drugs to take.
She was crying bitterly and I did all I could to comfort her and without knowing how it happened, we ended up making love.
When the deed had been done, I felt so bad and blamed myself for falling into such a stupid temptation but Mary told me she also wanted it as much as I did and would not mind us having an affair.
I told her to forget it as we both made a mistake and should see it as such but since that day, Mary has continued to blackmail me emotionally, often sending me raunchy text messages, telling me how much she wanted me and all that.
She has now added another dimension to the blackmail by saying she would tell Tim that I raped her the day she came to me and I know the damage such an allegation could cause for everyone.
What should I do to put a stop to Mary's harassment?
The teaser for the day was:
What should Andy do in the face of Mary's harassment?
How Nigeria voted:
Andy should open up to his Tim and apologize - 29%
Andy should set Mary up and let her husband catch her - 27%
Andy should continue with the secret affair since Mary is the one who wants it - 10%
Andy should confess to his wife and let her talk to Mary - 35%
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