Be Happy.

At least it will save your heart and keep it in good shape so you don't die young through tears which can provoke a deadly disease (hospitals would be glad to have you as a regular customer and pile bills up for you). You know you wouldn't want that, that is why you should adopt a corrective force which prevents one  from becoming a crank and that is laughter.

"A happy man lives with a healthy mind". Being happy doesn't mean to slap a plastic smile on your face looking like a clown when you walk by. It just means keeping yourself happy by lifting others around you the little way that you can. When you build and lift burdens off others, it helps you live in time of trials. You know you can't build out if pessimistic. You look with optimism and things happen for you.

Read: Being a woman of strength.

Laughter is the best medicine.

Why kill yourself with stress and worry? Does it take it all away?

Learn to laugh and rejoice and give thanks in all things and refuse to be depressed. Happiness isn't bought neither is it sold. Despite the marvelous truth,how many of us struggle from time to time with negative thoughts or feelings about ourselves?

Stop Comparing.

We are here to learn and grow. No one can make you feel inferior without your consent. You should stop comparing your worst to someone else's best. " comparison is the thief of joy".

To make mistakes is human, to stumble is common place, to be able to laugh at yourself is maturity.

Laugh,laugh,laugh.

Let there be no quality stain in your mind about your value as an individual. To truly laugh, you must be able to take your pain and play with it. Life isn't that hard. When you cannot make sense of certain events happening in your life, just laugh out loud (like the Lol you use in your text). Even if there's nothing to laugh about, just laugh on (not like a but case oooo) cos happiness has no expiry date.

Read:Learn how to learn.

For you are unique, made of the external intelligence which gives you claim upon a long lasting life. Do not get confused about who you are and how happy you can be. A good laugh heals a lot, it brings happiness to the home.

Written by Odawayi Ukandu.

Odawayi Ukandu is a creative writer, lover of arts&culture, food, traveling and is addicted to cakes and ice cream. You can link me up on Instagram; @odawayi,  twitter;@amakaukandu and on my personal blog lifestyleofanaijagirl.wordpress.com