What are your relationship red flags?

In the simplest terms, relationship red flags are those things you see in a potential partner that make you want to sit back and reconsider whether theyre indeed right for you or not.

So you slide into a lady's DM on Instagram and she's polite and has lit responses and not one-liners or anything of the sort.

Your convos extend beyond the first time and somehow, the chats become a ritual till you both decide to go on a date. I mean, you've got to see her at some point, right?

So you go on that date only to find out that she's actually rude and condescending. She treats the waitresses and other attendants with such disgust that takes you aback and makes you wonder if she's actually worth pursuing afterall.

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That's the thing with relationship red flags. Everyone has something they can't stand in anyone that's going to be end up being their girlfriend, boyfriend, husband or wife.

In Eniola Abumere's Youtube vlog [video below] published yesterday, Sept. 20, he says being self-absorbed is one habit that he can't deal with in a woman.

Alongside his guest, Nkem Edem, habits such as being too quick to express love and carelessly throwing around words of endearment were listed as red flags.

And according to Nkem, who writes lifestyle over at Bella Naija, physical and emotional abuse are things that raise the alarm for her in a guy.

So what are your red flags? Let's know by taking the poll below, and of course, you can also watch Eniola and Nkem speak in detail in the clip below.