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Common mistakes to avoid as a bride, at your function

In Uganda, traditional marriage ceremonies such as the "Kwanjula" (introduction) and "Kuhingira" (bride giveaway) are celebrated with much fanfare and often considered more significant than the actual wedding itself.

Singer Eddy Kenzo and Fiona Nyamutoro at their recent function. Meticulous planning and attention to detail is required for managing special events

These ceremonies are deeply embedded in the fabric of the society and entail a blend of respect, celebration, and deep cultural significance. However, like any major event, they come with their pitfalls.

A recent discussion on a TikTok account named MyKuhingiraCollectionUG shed light on some common mistakes made during these celebrations, as shared by former brides.

In the comment section, over 3000 former brides shared their biggest regrets about their marriage functions, offering invaluable insights into potential pitfalls

Here’s a compilation of their experiences aimed at helping future brides navigate these important days smoothly.

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Matron Matters: One user emphasized the importance of choosing a matron wisely. "If you have a sister, use her as your matron. Stay away from matrons, especially from church, I learned the hardest way," they commented.

The role of a matron is pivotal; she guides the bride throughout the day, ensuring that the program runs smoothly.

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Reliable Service Providers:

Many brides lamented, on the other hand, trusting family members to handle crucial aspects of the wedding planning.

While it's tempting to involve loved ones in such a special event, it's essential to recognize that family dynamics can sometimes complicate matters.

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As one user poignantly stated, "Don't use family as service providers, they will disappoint you."

Another crucial aspect is the reliability of service providers. One bride recounted her experience with a make-up artist:

"Always keep in touch with your service providers, my friend's make-up artist said she forgot when it was that very day."

Similarly, issues with a DJ and a photographer ruined another bride's day, "I trusted the wrong DJ simply coz he was my friend and the worst photographer coz a friend recommended him... now I have no memories of my function."

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Venue and Transport: The choice of venue and transportation can also make or break the day.

"If your parents’ home is not spacious for the event. Please don’t take it to that distant relative’s place. At least hire the venue; the expenses will be your comfort," shared a user.

Another highlighted problems with personal car arrangements. She hired bridal cars from an individual instead of a company.

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On the due date, he changed his mind because he got a higher bidder. We ended up using Toyota Harriers."

Prayer and Fasting: Spiritual preparation should not be overlooked. "The moment you decide to get married, pray and fast. Only God makes weddings," a user advised, pointing to the importance of divine blessings for a successful marriage function.

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Handling the Bridal Team: Having too many bridesmaids can be more of a hassle than help.

"Don't have too many bridesmaids; they don't want to pay for anything," noted one comment.

Also, the advice on keeping gifts secure was clear, "Don't open your gifts first; pray for them with your pastor or matron and let them open them."

Privacy and Space: One user advised that as a bride one needs to have one own room with a matron where bridal service providers will find you.

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“Don’t let anybody else inside people are evil," one bride suggested, emphasizing the need for privacy and security on such a chaotic day.

Yes! That too. Managing menstruation discreetly on such significant days can be challenging. A proactive piece of advice from the community stresses preparedness regardless of the menstrual cycle.

"Always wear a sanitary pad even when not on your period," one participant advised.

This precaution ensures that any unexpected start of a cycle does not lead to discomfort or embarrassment. Preparing for such possibilities allows the bride to remain focused and enjoy every moment without concern.

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