Actress claps back at baby mama critics
The Nollywood actress who is a single mother of two was quick to defend her status via a post she shared on instagram on Wednesday, May 18, 2016.
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Ade reminded the critics that most women had found themselves in that position unintentionally, and had had to make the painful choice of staying in an abusive relationship or leaving to fend for their kids themselves.
On a stunning photo of herself, Ade wrote:
"I take it personal when a person feels like they've got the right to speak on a person's lifestyle, relationship status or what not. Just because some choose to be quiet about your dirty laundry does NOT give you the right to speak about another. Just like every other single mother or so called "Baby Mama" , it's either a choice of being in a miserable relationship or getting out and keep pushing for their Child(Ren).
"P.S so you know, a lot of single parent (male or female) do a great job providing for themselves and children than you who sits in a miserable, horrible, heartbreaking relationship. We are not to be defined by our relationship status! Your dedication, hardwork, persistence to your existence in this world should be your focus. Just because a lot of us don't share our life story to the public does not mean we are not survivors. Face your life! Face your work! Be a great example to others! Be remembered more for the good and not bad. "
On the same day, Toyin Aimakhu had also shared her take on the new trend which has quickly become prevalent in the country.
She shared a meme with the text, “Don’t let sex turn you into a mother until love makes you a wife! Be with someone who’s gonna change your life not just your relationship status” and captioned it #word #goodnight #toyintitans."
Had Aimakhu shared her post in response to Ade's?
Being a baby mama would always be a choice made, but should be made even before the damage is done, do you agree?
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