5 things that will make you really great in bed

You don’t need to know about 30 sex positions or know a lot about porn to be extremely good in bed.

Rather, it comes down to more complex factors that you may already possess. And if you don’t, we’re here to help you point the skills you really need to blow your partner’s mind tonight.

1. Be innovative

We see the arm of a couch, you see a great prop for doggy-style. Being creative and looking for new ways to spice things up is crucial in a lover. Anything that’s a bit more interesting is great.

2. Not judgemental

Whether it’s hearing out your partner’s fantasy or allowing yourself to really identify your own, being open to different desires and turn-ons are essential in a partner. So put aside your judgments and really listen to the desires of you and your partner. You may find that you’re into some really interesting stuff.

3. Trying almost everything once

It’s hard to be good in bed if you only do what you know and don’t do anything but that. Obviously, if your partner is dying to have a threesome and you’re not into it, then it’s perfectly justified to say no. But when it comes to new tricks, tips, and techniques, we suggest giving it shot.

4. Thinking about sex a lot

Sex has a strong mental component. So pay attention when you have a sensual thought or feel randomly aroused throughout the day, and don’t immediately dismiss it. Allow yourself to feel eroticized and observe what’s sexy around you.

5. Enjoying a solo time

Someone who is in tune with her body and aware of what feels good will be a better lover and will enjoy sex more. Women can forget how fun and pleasurable masturbation can be, especially when they’re in a relationship; and although some may think that masturbating will make you less interested in sex, very often the opposite is true.

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