I want to have s*x with my husband but my lesbian partner says no - Woman cries

According to the lady who wrote a letter to Dear Deidre, The Sun's agony aunt column, she is prepared to do away with the lesbianism but doesn’t want to lose her partner’s friendship.

In her letter, she narrated how she ventured into a same sex relationship, which her husband did not have any problem with.

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Read the full letter below:

"I’ve been seeing a woman I met on a dating app. It’s great fun and I feel I’ve got a good friendship with her too.

"My husband was happy enough for me to go ahead with dating women. I think he thought it was something I needed to get out of my system.

"I am 34 and my husband is 36. We’ve been together for seven years.

"Friends can’t believe my husband is going along with this set-up, and sometimes neither can I.

"Even though I’d say I am happily married, I had a drunken night of sex with a female friend last year. It was the first time I’d been with another woman and it blew my mind.

"After that, I found myself wanting to experiment again with another woman.

"I talked to my husband about it, and he gave me the green light. I went online and after talking to several women, I ended up meeting one.

"I felt an instant connection with her. What started as a bit of fun developed into the best friendship I have ever had.

"She is 35. We would regularly meet up at her flat for cosy nights — normally when my husband was on a lads’ night out.

"I was so happy and didn’t feel in the least bit guilty. But then she told me she’d fallen for me and said she loves me.

"I didn’t have the heart to tell her I didn’t feel the same way.

"One year on, we are still sleeping together but I’ve grown bored with the sex. In fact, I’d rather we kept it platonic.

"She expected me to stop having sex with my husband but says she doesn’t want me to leave him. I don’t know exactly what she wants.

"I do love her, just not in that way. There never seems to be a right time to have a conversation with her.

"I don’t want to hurt her and I’m worried I’ll lose my best friend."

Meanwhile, responding to the letter of the confused woman, Deidre urged her to have a conversation with her lesbian partner to reach an understanding of why she has to focus now on her husband.

"A couple of same-sex experiences doesn’t mean your underlying sexuality has changed, though you’ve clearly discovered a dimension to your sexuality you don’t seem to have been aware of before.

"These situations always bring emotional risks. Ending a relationship, however long it has been, is never easy.

"But you’re doing the right thing – it would be wrong to let this drift on when you know it’s not what you want long-term. It’s not fair to your patient and obliging husband either.

"Let her down gently but be firm and tell her that you are going to focus on your marriage," the agony aunt wrote.