5 Reasons You Are Probably Still Single

olamide olarewaju

September 18, 2014 12:29 PM

If you are single and wonder why, here may be reasons...

By definition, a single person is someone who is not in a relationship or not married. These days, people argue that even when you are still dating but not married you are both still single, so unless you exchange rings/get married some kind of way, you are still single!

But we like to see single as not in any form of relationship because it is simple; if you are in a relationship you are dating/seeing someone which could end up in marriage (hopefully, that's usually what we want except otherwise)

Now if you are single not by choice and it beginning to bother you and are wondering why/whats going wrong or anything of some sort; here may be reasons why you are probably still are:

1.You Are Waiting For The Perfect Person To Find You.

Instead of getting out there and actually attract your kind of person, you are seated n your home expecting the prince or princess charming to 'locate' you; that almost never happens. Go out there, mingle and get your kind of person!

2. You Lack Self Confidence.

Sometimes, your lack of self confidence does much more harm than good, lack of self confidence is totally different from self control. You have to be confident enough to approach anyone and make them see any reason why they should date/be friends with you in the first place, if you have no confidence in yourself why should anyone? Self confidence not cockiness is important.

3. You Are Probably Too Annoying And Fastidious.

If you come across as brash, rude, fastidious/hard to please or downright annoying, you end up repulsive. Selfish, inconsiderate or downright annoying people may not find it easy to get people to stay with them, same goes if you are extremely hard to please.

4. Low Or Non Existent Sense Of Hygiene

If you are always unkempt, rough and have a general low sense of hygiene, you may not attract the opposite sex, always stay proper, a general sense of great hygiene is key, always!

5. Or You Are Too Special/ Awesome

Sometimes, you are single just because you wont settle for less, waiting for that special someone and are yet to find them, you wont lower your standard to have just anyone but whoever deserves you. You are just too damn special!

Of course you didn't think there was a crime in being single? While it is important to be considerate, prim and proper, selfless and so more, do not see being single as a desperate way out to date just anyone.

Go out, mingle, meet great people,date and by all means settle into a meaningful relationship!

olamide olarewaju