Pulse Nigeria Poll Readers say they would report a wife who is misbehaving to her family

47% of Pulse Nigeria Poll voters say they will report a wife who is misbehaving to her family instead of divorcing her.

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This sad man still needs advice

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One reader, Moses, is not happy that his wife is allowing her pastor to destroy their home and is not certain on what to do to save his marriage from imminent collapse going by the fact that the pastor seems to have hypnotized his wife.

Read his letter here:

"My name is Moses and I have been married for seven years with three children, but at the moment, there is no longer peace in my home as my wife, Faith, is pushing me up the wall and I believe it is better we part ways before I kill her out of frustration.

We were living in peace till her friend introduced her to a new church she said is so powerful and invited her to attend their week long programme. I did not stop her from attending the programme because my wife is very religious and won't mind spending all her time in doing God's work.

I knew she prayed for the well being of the family but little did I know that I was giving room for disaffection in our.

When she came back from the church, she kept extolling the pastor as being very powerful and can 'see' everything that happens or is about to happen to anyone. She invited me to the night vigil in the church and I reluctantly went with her.

During the service, the pastor went into the spirit and called me out. He told me so many things about what I have been going through in my family and life in general.

He gave us some assignments to carry out, warning us of the consequences of not carrying them out to the latest. We carried out the assignments he gave us but the man went another step further by saying we must be members of his church to be able to receive blessings from God.

I could not just dump my church where I am an elder and start attending another church just like that and I told my wife so but according to her, she had found the true man of God and her spiritual father an there is nothing that would make her stop going to the church. And true to her word, she stopped attending our church and dedicated her life to the new church and the pastor.

Since then, there is nothing she does without referring to the man and in recent times, she has started accusing me of being a stumbling block in her life, saying that her pastor told her my mother is a witch and that I have been planning to kill her.

She has refused to cook in the house for fear that I may poison her and is practically living in the church with our children. Anytime I try to stop her, she threatens to kill me before I kill her. I have confronted the pastor, telling him to leave my family alone but he told me my only grace is if I will submit to a total deliverance in the church.

As it is now, I am losing my family because of a so called pastor.


The teaser for the day was:

What would you do if a pastor is causing friction in your home?

How Nigeria voted:

23% - I will report him to the police

47% - I will report my wife to her family

15% - I will charge the pastor to court

15% - I will fight the pastor physically

2% - I will divorce my wife

How would you vote here?

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