"Most married people are not single"

People who have a lot of hurt, find it hard to let in people into their lives.

So, they get married with all the junk in their lives and lock their spouse out, due to a lack of trust.

The junk people carry about could be stuff about their first sexual experience, first relationship etc.

The reason most people are having challenges in their marriage, is because most of us are married but not single.

We are still married to what our boyfriend did to us, the wrong thing that was said to us.

When you let these kind of things hold you down, you do not recognise when somebody wonderful comes into your life.

Even when you do, they now have to compete with those little things from your past, that has become Idols in your life.

Learn more from this video.