"Your past can affect your marriage"

If you can find committed love, you have achieved something. It is a really big deal, when you find someone that can love you, inspite of your flaws.

Everybody has junk in their life. It is impossible to live in this world and not have any junk in your life.

The process of life's journey creates clutter. As you grow old, you just pick junk up.

Hurts from your past will never let you open up to love because you fear being hurt again.

You might even end up hurting your spouse. He might even compete to get your attention, because you have given your attention to the past that has cluttered your life.