Guys need sex to validate their ego. To them, it is not a sign of love or a show of affection.
Why you should not let him have sex early in a relationship
Sex is a tension easer for every man. No matter what he says, it is a sport. Just like hunting.
Because men, see every pursuit as a project, they tend to look for the next activity or event that will catch their fancy after they have sex.
That is why a man hardly waits around to cuddle you, after hitting the honey-pot.
It is dangerous, if you let him eat the “pudding” early in the relationship. Men take time to develop emotional attachment and feeling for a woman-what you call romantic feeling.
When a guy tells you he loves you, he is saying “I like what I see, and want to own it” Guys really need time to grow emotional feelings of love or romantic feelings as the case may be.
Women assume that when they let him have it, he understands that she is showing emotional commitment to him. Nah!
Sex does not make a man bond with you. It only satisfies his curiosity and animal instinct. It eases his stress, and gives him a sense of accomplishment.
The best way to ensure there is a romantic bond between both of you, is if you delay sex.
Make sure you keep the sexual tension on for as long as possible. If he gets it after a while, he’ll appreciate the chase.
Learn to close your legs for a while. It will help your self esteem.
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