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My girlfriend is breaking up with me because I can't give her "head"

I love her so much, have been with her for almost 2 years but I can't give her a blowjob because I don't believe in it.

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Dear Kayode

I understand you are in a difficult place.. Where you are being asked to go against your belief. It's hard and I'm sorry. But to be honest, "blow job" is no more a taboo. Men and women do it these days and its completely normal. It's just an act which spices sex. However, if you insists that it's not what you want to do, then let her go. It's obvious she wants what you can’t give and its ok to let go sometimes. If you've begged and she isn't coming back, then its ok to move on. She also has the right to enjoy sex and you can't prevent her from getting satisfied in bed. So sorry for your loss sweetheart.

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