Marriage is wonderful thing when both parties are in love but years down the line managing a family becomes harder and most relationships between partners become strained.

As a wife and mother, you are over your head with your children's school work, planning for the home and may have little or no time for your husband.

You may feel like you are totally losing touch with the "couple" part of your relationship when things get crazy.

GayeC of BlogHer gives 10 tips for couples to stay connected with each other