According to relationship expert, Owen Williams, most people think like this a lot but what they need is a lover not a best friend.

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"If your friends give you everything your lover can given, then you don't need  a lover. Your lover needs his or her friends and you need your own friends.

This will help you talk about all your issues outside and bring a  better solution home. But when you rely on your lover to be everything to you that'll set you up for failure", Williams says.

"You need a lover not a best friend," he concludes.

Watch the video above.