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How to know that your girl wants s*x

How to catch a hint when your girl won't say she wants sex.

How to understand your girl's hints for s*x (Happy Sonship)

Babes hardly tell you when they want to smash. They just drop hints and expect you to get it.

If you slow down and carefully bide your time, they might say you are too slow and dull.

"A babe once told me that I don't take hints and I was really pained," says 27-year-old Farouk [not his real name].

As if that's not enough, when Nigerian and other African babes [including your girlfriend] want to have sex with you, they're hardly ever open or straightforward about it.

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But they've mastered the skill of dropping hints. So if you do not want to be called a dull guy, know how to take hints. Let's show you how.

It’s really a no-brainer. To be able to know when to go in [pun not intended], you have to be sensitive to be aware and receptive of your girl’s move.

Some prefer to just rub on you a lot more than normal and others do stuff that are waaaay more random and subtle than that -- like simply saying 'I'm coming over.'

The major key here is to be sensitive and with time, you’ll become used to your girl’s most preferred I-want-to-have-sex moves.

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This is a bit sensitive, given how easy it is to mistake her actions for hints when she’s actually dropping none.

But then, as Ogechi, 25, says: “if a girl wants you to touch her and do stuff with her, you will know somehow, except you’re not paying attention or you're extremely dumb.”

So, guys there might be no way to know until you actually try. Even at that, you still have to be extremely careful.

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Don’t jump right into it. Hold her palm and see how she reacts. If she’s cool with that, you can fondle the palm gently and gauge her reaction.

The aim is to be as slow as possible so as not to cross any lines.

You might just as well ask her if you’re not sure. That saves a lot of trouble. But then, some women claim that asking kind of kills the fun for them.

It's a very tricky affair, man

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One major way to take a hint is to know WHEN TO STOP.

Guys, rape is real and terrible. If she says stop, it does not matter whether she’s your babe or not, you’ve got to stop immediately!

Don't also take the risk of saying "she does not mean it."

Just assume she means it and act accordingly. Let her be the one to tell you to continue.

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There’s no clearer hint to take than what is expressly spelt.

Have fun responsibly, bruhs.

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