For as long as he can remember, Ryan Lensman was heavy. Ive seen pictures from when I was very young, and thin, the 30-year-old administrative assistant from Long Island, New York, says, but I dont remember looking that way. An unhealthy diet and lack of exercise led him to hit 360 pounds. He felt terribleconstantly sweating and out of breathand hated looking at himself in the mirror. He rarely let anyone take a picture of him. But no matter how bad he felt, and how much he hated looking at himself, he kept on eating.

That had to change once he was diagnosed, in October 2017, with Type 2 diabetes . Hed gone to the doctor with what he thought were symptoms of a urinary tract infection, only to have the doc send him to the emergency room. When the diagnosis came back, he realized his whole lifestyle needed an overhaul.

He honed in on his diet portion control was an obvious first step. Lensman started eating lean meats like white-meat chicken and turkey. He ate a lot of salad and watched his carbs and sugar.

Then he introduced cardio . Slowly at first, walking a mile a day. Eventually he got that up to six miles, spread throughout the day. And he started lifting weights , with a pair of dumbbells in his room that hed use every other day. This January, he joined a gymnow hes lifting six days a week: chest, shoulders , and triceps on Monday, Wednesday and Friday; back and biceps on Tuesday, Thursday, and Saturday; and leg days twice a week . Hes dialed back his cardio to a fast workout in the morning and a three-mile walk after dinner.

When he first started, he was doing it all on his own. When he decided to add weight lifting, he turned to a friend who was a former bodybuilder to help him train. Just seeing the numbers on the scale go down, and my clothes getting bigger was enough to keep me motivated, he says. Constant cheering from friends and family helped keep me motivated as well. Always great to have people you love in your corner.

In a year and a half he went from 360 pounds down to 180, his target weight. I think I was averaging about 2 pounds of weight loss a week, he says. His health has improved, and so has his self-esteem. I never really entered the dating world before, because I was terrified of being shot down, which in my head, was an absolute certainty, he says. Now, Im in a relationship with a great girl, and couldnt be happier.

This Guy Fixed His Diet and Lost 180 Pounds
This Guy Fixed His Diet and Lost 180 Pounds
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For a long time hed been self-conscious of how much he weighed, and what kind of person he believed that made him. The scale has gotten in my head a lot, and I wouldnt wish that feeling on anyone, he says. But with the support of family and friends (and in part by not checking his weight more than once a week), hes completely changed himself.

This has been one of the hardest things Ive ever had to do in my life, but it has also been one of the most rewarding, he says. Ive learned so much about myself since I started this journey, and my willpower is much stronger than I ever knew.