In the beginning it isn't uncommon for a victim to innocently ignore the infrequent snide comments and snubs. This is because they occur sporadically and are often "peppered" with random acts of kindness leaving the victim feeling confused and unsure.

In their article, "Domestic Violence and Abuse," by Melinda Smith, M.A., and Jeanne Segal, Ph.D, it reads,  "Emotional abuse includes verbal abuse such as yelling, name-calling, blaming, and shaming. Isolation, intimidation, and controlling behavior also fall under emotional abuse. Abusers who use emotional or psychological abuse often throw in threats of physical violence or other repercussions if you don't do what they want."

ALSO READ: 62% of Pulse readers say they would not stay in an abusive marriage

For those who have been there, you understand; moving from victim to survivor you found yourself wondering, "How did that happen?" and "How did I get here?" That's how insidious it is. But just so we are clear,  you have done nothing wrong. Abusers are just that good.

Here is a list of 12 common signs of emotional abuse.

Watch a short film on emotional abuse below: