Here are 10 ways to win the heart of your crush

Ayoola Adetayo 06:49 - 10 February 2022

Happy couples are not happy absent of communication. [Credit - Shutterstock]

People are talking about what it takes to win their hearts. Time to take notes.

There aren’t two people alike. In a way, they might share similarities but in a grander context, no one person bears complete resemblance with another. Not in physical qualities and surely not in other forms.

What this essentially means is that what pleases one person might not rock another’s boat and to get someone’s attention or to make a positive impression on them, you have to do what they like, and in a manner they like.

And if you’re wondering what that could be, Nigerians are opening up on the subject. Off a tweet posted on September 1, 2019, by Brown Sugar [@yettyclassy] on Twitter, here are 10 things you may want to consider doing in order to make a mark in that [potential] relationship.

1. Show concern

For me, it has always been about how you make me feel, safe, cared for, your concern et al. I love very sensitive men cause I’m over sensitive and people see it as paranoia but I’m just very cautious.
— Deaconess Ada🌺✨🦋 (@Uyoyoghene_) September 1, 2019

2. Good shoes and wanderlust

I like it when a guy is very intelligent, spontaneous about gestures. And loves to travel... Cares a lot about his shoess😁...

Oh and buy me junk food😂😂
— Ibi Divine Doo ♥️💜 (@dvine_ibi) September 2, 2019

3. Honesty and humility don’t hurt nobody

Just have humility, honesty and be a man of your words ... pic.twitter.com/TtAtkngMB2
— Meilifisayo (@MeiliFisayo) September 1, 2019

4. Not much. Just some attention to maintain focus

You don't need to do shit. If i like you i like you but for me to continue liking you, you'll to give me attention and all of that shit
— shawty (@__maejane) September 2, 2019

5. Peace of mind

Just don't gimme wahala, I just want peace of mind
— geefoots👞 (@Gbadenor) September 1, 2019

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6. Endless patience for small talk

Ha yetty for me it's attention oh🙈 and being a good gist partner because I can talk, I know it can be frustrating oh, but le boo steady gives me that oh.
— Fuoma🤩🌝 (@FUNMIDAMMY) September 1, 2019

7. A great sense of humour

Thoughtfulness. Shows that you actually understand or you actually listen and get me.
If we are strangers, good conversation skill and humour is impressive
— Fay Fay 💸 (@Ms_Onoja) September 1, 2019

8. Reassurance and good meals to boot

It's very easy to impress me yet so hard 😫

Just be smart. And reassure me every damn time. I want to hear how I make you feel. I want to hear how you love / like me everyday

Then buy me food when I least expect it or for no reason. 😁

Dazzol
— Alaga Of Abuja 🐺 (@KIRAAH_) September 2, 2019

9. Clarity is key

Simple: tell me wat it is and exactly how it is in your mind. No mincing of words. You're happy, say so. I fucked up, tell me. You want head, just say so. You want to knack, say so. Yu miss me, tell me. Don't expect me to read your mind. We ain't playing chess.
— Obeezy...za Sex Gad|| M.O.B crew (@ObeezyZa) September 2, 2019

10. Reciprocity

I like a lady that knows a guy needs some care too and she shouldnt be on the receiving end always
— Pizzylee (@oyinloye_s) September 1, 2019