My crush has another boyfriend & I'm hurt

Dear Bukky,

There's a lady that has feelings for me to the extent that she comes to my house often but I did not show interest then.

I don't know what came over me but eventually, I developed interest in her. I later called her to express my feelings to her but she told me she is dating someone and that the guy has proposed to her by giving her a ring.

She said when she has showed her feelings and her love to me that I did not reciprocate, I didn't show her love and I tried to explain to her that it’s because of what I was passing through that made me not to look at her side then.

She burst into tears, confessing that she loved me so much but she did not know what to do. She was crying bitterly which also caused me to cry.

We often cry together whenever she comes around. At this juncture, I don’t know what to do.

I love her so much and she loves me too... please what should we do?________________

Dear reader,

I won’t be the person to tell you to snatch another person’s babe.

And here is why; if you had a girlfriend, would you want someone from her past coming to snatch her?

I think you had your chance and you blew it. Let sleeping dogs lie.

Take this as some unrectifiable mistake of yours and just move on. I think you need to make yourself scarce from that woman’s life. Let her enjoy her relationship.________________Do you want to talk about your love life, marriage or family issues?

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